THE ELITE WEDDING
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THE ELITE WEDDING
GROOM INTERVIEW
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Temitope Ogunsote |
Basically, we met at church. She was like this normal church girl, just this normal, hello, hi, kind of thing and well, one thing led to another, and we started talking, and exchanged contacts. At first, it was kind of awkward because being in the same church with the person, But I guess our feelings just didn’t let that get the best of us. And we just decided to make it work either way.
SA. What was your first impression?
Personally, I actually get people’s character wrong. Well, I knew her to be a God-fearing person, my first impression wasn't wrong about her. I knew her as this down to earth and a really humble person. Fortunately, I wasn't wrong, so I'm happy that I didn't get that wrong. Because I think I'm not sure today will happen, she struck me as this God-fearing person and very humble person, that's part of what attracted me to her.
SA. What was your first date?
Yes… it’s kind of confusing, and we go back and forth on it, our first date surely was in a mall, either Ikeja city mall or Maryland mall. I think, it was Maryland mall, it was a movie date. I kind of remember that date very well, I wore a jersey, I tried different kinds of outfit, to see which would look nice, and at the end of the day I just wore jersey and jeans. I also noticed she was nervous. It was quite an awkward incident because it was the first time we were both out. We were really just being in the company of each other for the first time without being in a church scenario that we usually see ourselves. It was a fun experience at the end of the day but at first we were kind of “cagey” towards each other.
SA. What are your favorite things about the bride?
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Yes, if I’m to say the favourite character I like about my wife, It will be the fact that she's very down-to-earth, like very humble, regardless of who she's relating with, and it is very difficult to get her angry. She connects with everyone equally, and I really appreciate that about her. And I really like this, because I don’t like people feeling too big than themselves .Also, The fact that she's God-fearing was the critical thing for me. Because in this world that we are, many lack this God factor in them, but she stood out, God fearing and very simple. and she's playful although not up to me. She smiles a whole lot too which is good for me.
SA. Do you have a message for the bride before you get married?
It will be the fact that she should keep being herself, I know sometimes I'm complicated, and it may not have been easy for her until this moment. Recently we started jelling, Hence, I'll like her to be just be herself, she has always been very understanding. I appreciate the fact that she's been doing this already, and I want her to keep being herself. God will bless our union
SA. In what ways are you most alike?
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| He looked at her the way all women want to be looked at by a man. |
We are both introverts in a way, I could remember we spent a valentine at home, watching movie, I was thinking she would like to go out, but when I asked her, if she would like to go out, she ended up saying she would prefer to stay at home. So we decided to spend the money we would have spent outside at home, we ordered pizza and drinks home, and had our fun.
SA. In what ways are you most different?
The difference between us, which is quite lovely, is that she is charming and very nice. Sometimes, it freaks me out. On the other hand, I'm more of a strict kind of person , because I believe in principle s and things going according to plan, while she's always lovely. My motive is usually, let this person do what they need to do, I’m principled, but she’s too nice. The difference we have is the right mix, and we can make up for each other in what is lacking. When someone wants to take her niceness for granted, I can step in as a strict person and vice versa, when I am too strict, she can dilute it being with her niceness.
SA. How did the proposal go?
Hahaha……the proposal?...A great deal of the relationship was done over the phone because we were separated for about two years, she was out of the country, and I was here. The proposal was made through WhatsApp call,…hahahaha…. so I bought the ring, she saw the ring, Andrew I proposed. The ring was physically with me, but spiritually with her, hahaha. When she got back to Nigeria, I gave her the ring physically. Thank God for video calls. Otherwise, I'll be doing the proposal two weeks to the wedding.
SA. What are you looking forward to on your wedding day?
I’m looking forward to seeing my bride's face and I can see that she’s happy. If she is happy, then I’m fine, I’m good.
SA. Why do you love the bride?
I fell in love with her because of her originality. It’s simple, if she likes you, she likes you. If she doesn’t like you, she doesn’t like you. I can write a book about her. Because it's something I can't finish in an interview. I think I mentioned earlier that She's a very kind person, and it is not easy to find someone who understands my kind of person. Since I was born, even people in my house still find a thing or the other that they don't understand. They felt like God just made her for me because she understands my character. It even feels like she was reading it out of a book that someone gave to her. So, I just love her niceness, her humility; she's just a great human being.
SA. What are your Honeymoon Plans?
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The best thing to hold onto in life is each other. |
Well, most of it is going to be secret. However, we'll just let you guys in on a few. We plan on visiting some beautiful places here in Lagos. Outside Lagos, the country is not accessible; if not, we'll probably go out of the country to Hawaii or something. Nonetheless, we may do that for our anniversary. But for now, we just want to spend most of our time together. The rest is for two of us, I can’ttellbyou yet, it’s also a surprise.
SA. If you could change one thing about your partner, what would it be?
Well, the only thing I’ll change is her level of emotion. She gets too emotional about things, just a little news, whether good or bad she'll get too emotional. You can tell her babe, someone just gave birth and before you know it she’ll start crying “awwwn”…and I’ll be like, babe this thing is not that serious now, you’re taking it too serious. Sometimes it freaks me out, and I’ll be like, come, baby, this your reaction is too extreme. But, It's kind of good, it shows she has touched with her inner feelings. If I could change it, I will, but if I can't, I'm okay with it, she's a human being, and she has feelings. Ogunsote Abiodun Temitope a.k.a Babzy king hunter.
BRIDE INTERVIEW
Elizabeth Omomayowa
SA. How did you guys meet?
Emmm...We attend the same church. Although, His brother was in my school, and he made us become friends.
SA. What was your first impression?
He was hilarious and just really jovial with everyone. So, yeah, that was my first impression, nothing serious.
SA. What was your first date?
That should be at the mall, maybe, At Ikeja city mall, I’m not sure. We went to see a movie
SA. What are your favorite things about the groom?
That should be his sense of humour and he gets along with everyone. He literally plays with everyone, that is very good.
SA. Do you have a message for the groom before you get married?
Hahaha, cut, cut, I don’know..(.hehehe…laughing out loud)..well…He should remain sweet, loving, and caring that he has always been, and I pray that we enjoy ourselves. (Hehehe…laughing out loud). Thank you.
SA. In what ways are you most alike?
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| “Your heart is full of love and affection. Your hands are always caring. I am lucky to have you as my wife.” |
We like being indoors, I don’t like going out and he doesn’t like going out as well. So our kind of chilling is to Just be at home, watch movies etc, yeah, we really have that it common, that’s it.
SA. In what ways are you most different?
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| “Falling in love with you is the moment I got a cause to fight for and a reason to live for. I love you.” |
Emmm, I think that has to be our music tastes. He likes rap songs and loud music, the dancing ones, you know.. and I kind of like the cool ones.
SA. How did the proposal go?
(This question is quite hilarious, hehehe). Oh well, It was quite different because we were in a distant relationship, it wasn't the usual kind of proposal, the will you marry me and go down on your knees and all, he was just like, just come home and let's get married. So yeah, (hahaha,) it wasn’t the normal kind of proposal
SA. What are you looking forward to on your wedding day?
Yes, I think that has to be our first dance together. You know, it hasn’t happened before, and I’m expecting it with all the emotions, peace and calm. The first dance will be incredible and amazing.
SA. Why do you love the groom?
(Ohh...sorry, cancel, let me take that again..)I can't really say, even with all the distance, he is just everything (laughs), he is just amazing, I don't know.
SA. What are your Honeymoon Plans?
Well, Nothing serious, we would just find somewhere to be alone, away from people, like a beach resort or something. Some where cool, somewhere really really nice. I love the beach view and yeah that will be nice. And it seems like most likely what I’m going to do.
SA. If you could change one thing about your partner, what would it be?
He has this mix of strict and professional sides. In addition to his funny and jovial side, I'll want more of his jovial part, that's what I'll change about him. You know I’m very free and all, so when I have to deal with that strict side of him, I’ll just like, you know, tune it down a bit, it doesn’t have to be extreme, he knows, he knows that already.
Interviewer:
You mean like the street credibility, …you don’t like it right ?
No o, no o, not the street credibility, I mean like his strictness, I don’t really like it. So yeah, that one
So yeah, Hi guys…I’m Elizabeth Omomayowa Williams soon to be Mrs. Ogunsote.
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